Showing posts with label vacation. Show all posts
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Monday, October 20, 2008

Perseverence....



























“Assalamualaikum and welcome!” greeted the youngish-looking hotel owner in bahasa melayu, who apparently was already in his fifties, just as soon as we stepped onto the pavement next to the main entrance. His hands were grabbing our loads of luggage, pulling them into the lobby.

“You speak malay very well indeed!” said my other half.

“Sure do! How can we forget? We went to a school in Kuala Lumpur for quite a few years. My brother and I!” said he, motioning his hands to the comfortable seats.

“Oh! How interesting!” I said, lowering myself to the intricately decorated seats.

“Yes! We came from Burma. And during that time, we went to Malaysia to seek greener pastures. Times were getting difficult back home. However, after a few years, renewing visas was quite a hassle, so our father decided to find another country where we could settle in. Now, we are Norwegians and my children study here in the UK. My youngest, still in Cambridge while my eldest just graduated from St. Andrews, Scotland,” he related his past history.

He handed us the keys and ushered us to our rooms; small but very clean. That night, we took a walk in the summer night and had our dinner at one of the numerous halal eateries nearby. We were on our way home to Malaysia, after spending some time in Manchester, while attending our son’s convocation.

“Come in and enjoy your breakfast!” said the elder brother to the one who greeted us yesterday, early the next morning; his voice, cheerful and friendly.

“Thank you!” said my other half as we made our way to the breakfast table, in a cosy sitting area down at the basement.

At the other end, a couple was speaking in a language we could not understand. Once in a while there was laughter when our host joined in their conversation also in the same language.

“What would you like? Coffee, tea?” said the cheery voice again.

“Coffee please! And which country are they from, may I ask?” said my hubby.

“Norway! That is my country now, after we had to move from our country of origin.”

“We just got to know from your younger brother that your family once stayed in Kuala Lumpur. And the two of you went to school there too! Is that true?”

“Yes! It is true!” said he. In his hands were two pots of hot coffee.

“Why didn’t you just stay put?” said my hubby.

“Well! Our visa needed to be renewed every now and then and father had to go through the trouble to get it done. We were offered a permanent place to stay somewhere in East Malaysia. You see, we were city boys; grew up in Rangoon. At that time, Rangoon was not anywhere near what it is now. Beautiful, modern and a city full of heritage and life. Of course, we would not be able to adjust if we move to a remote place like East Malaysia. Father understood and that was why we landed in Norway.”

“But why Norway?” asked my son-in-law.

“Did you know that by owing a Norwegian passport, one does not need a visa to enter whichever country? Father did his homework very well and he was a well-read man. His decision was a wise one. Two of our siblings are doing business in Oslo and take charge of our family home there. While my younger brother and I man this hotel and another restaurant situated at Edgware Road nearby. Once a year, we would fly to Oslo and gather as a big family,” he said, handing us trays of toasts with butter and jam.

“Is your father still around?” said I, curious, helping myself to scrambled eggs, tempting looking mixed beans and corn, with red peppers thrown in spicy tasting sauce. How delicious!

“Oh! Yes! He is already in his eighties but still up and about. He was the one who started our family restaurant while our mum helps us here in this hotel. In the mornings, I will be here and at night, I will be helping out at the restaurant. My brother will take over this place at night.”

“You are a hard working man and full of perseverance!” quipped my other half, sipping his cup of coffee while our daughter fed little Nuha some toasts, lined with butter and jam.

“My father always said that you should enjoy doing what you want to do. Then you may reap the harvest of success. He is already well into his eighties and my mother is in her seventies. Both are still healthy and active. Father loves reading and follows whatever that is going on in the world. We are practicing Muslims, do our prayers, fast. Likewise the other pillars of Islam. And one thing I want to share with you. Not a single day went that our hotel is unoccupied. There will always be someone asking to stay. In fact, our place is very popular amongst Muslims because we serve only halal food.”

We sat mesmerized while enoying the scrumptious and filling breakfast that our friendly host had prepared with his own hands.

“I would like to share something too! Our granduncle was the first premier of Burma at that time. Dr. Ba Maw, a muslim lawyer, famous for his struggles to free Burma from the British. In fact, he decided to take up his doctorate in Bordeaux, France just to spite the British and to send them a strong message of his dislike for them. If you were to go to Myanmar now, you would see lots of schools, colleges, hospitals and public places named after him.”

“Those years in Burma, the muslims, even though are a minority, are highly regarded in the society. Because they are highly educated and profound in their knowledge. Furthermore, the economy of the country was mainly held in the muslim’s hands,” said the zealous hotel owner.

“We will definitely come here if we happen to be in London again!” said my son-in-law.

“Yes! Please do! Insha Allah! This strategic location, near to the shopping area of Edgware Road. Plus the fact that it is only within walking distance to the Paddington underground and main train station, conveniently connected to the Heathrow Airport. We are proud to own this place since 4 years ago and are always grateful to God for bestowing us his bounties,“ said our host, his face lighting up in a broad smile.

We acquired lots more life experiences from our two hosts during our two nights’ stay. The hotel which is situated at the tree lined Sussex Gardens, full of greenery and colourful blossoms, in the middle of a 200 year old Victorian terrace. It is not surprising that their family is thriving very well, being listed as one of the top ten budget hotels in London. Their restaurant too!

We now know where we would stay if we happen to be in London again, God willing. Why don’t you?

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

The end of one era…the beginning of another…
















It feels good to get away once in a while…

Not alone, but to be together as a whole….To relish moments, to be close to each other…Moments that one day, we may cherish…snapshots to be relinquished and be amused with…

That was exactly what I did…disappear altogether to another part of the world…us (my other half, our eldest daughter, her family and I). We were about to spend two weeks together…in the UK.

Even then, I couldn’t help noticing the anxiety that hovers over my daughter’s face as she carried her laptop on her back all through the journey, thinking about the unfinished pieces of work that was expected of her from her boss….from one of those gleaming windows, up the Twin Towers…overlooking Kuala Lumpur.

I could only shake my head, for as all of us laid in bed, she was still up, in a room down below, flicking her fingers on the keyboard…and sending pieces of worksheets and financial reports across the digital connect. Alhamdulillah for the internet!

As usual, Manchester was all drizzling and grey. Little Nuha Insyirah seemed very much at home with the cold atmosphere. The rest of us reveled in our gloves and thick garments…summer there was just like as I remembered last year…cold and gloomy…

The great day came….Friday the 11th. of July….the 2.30 p.m. session

Everbody was in a hurry. Nuha Insyirah’s Ayah Cu (nickname for Youngest Uncle) will have to run right after Friday prayers, at the St. Mary’s Hospital, Oxford Road, about a kilometer away and be at the Whitworth Hall for his Degree Congregations, (at least that is how it is called over there and written on the front page of the official purple book)…while the rest of us, made our way in our ‘fine attire’ by taxi from 156 Kings Road M16 0EL. At 2.00 p.m. sharp and then the entrance doors will be closed. So, we had to move fast.

The colourful gathering, with parents in their respective national attires, siblings, friends from across the globe…in the grand hall. I had not the slightest inkling that the Co-Chancellor had handpicked my son’s session to be the one which she preferred to preside, until it was made known by the master of ceremony. It was indeed an honour to us! Yes! She! For the Co-Chancellor (the first ever female Chancellor)
was none other than the Honourable Ms. Anna Ford, the eloquent anchorwoman of BBC’s 6 o’ clock news in her younger days. Those who were in the UK in the late 70’s and early 80’s (like my other half and I) would have remembered her, a familiar and respected voice and face on the radio and television.

She was elected as the Chancellor, sharing duties with Sir Terry Leahy, for the past seven years. She was a product of the University of Manchester herself (back then it was known as the Victoria University of Manchester), became the first woman president of the Students’ Union and was responsible for setting up the International Society in the 60’s to cater for the welfare and social needs of international students at Manchester's three universities. And last year, she presented the degree to her own daughter. However, this session will be her last as she will be retiring. The air in the hall was full of sadness when this was mentioned during the session encompassing avionics and aerospace and mechanical engineering graduands. Maybe that is how other people would feel and how it would be like if one has carried out one’s duties diligently, splendidly and wholeheartedly.

It was truly a pleasure to listen to her articulate speech. For having graduated in the field of economics and her own vast experience as a broadcaster and journalist, she speaks from her heart. (Such bizarre contrast from the monotonous and dry voices we sometimes tend to hear from prepared speeches here locally, by our own dignitaries…) It was short, simple and sweet yet meaningful and inspirational….

She elegantly conveyed, “It is quite unfortunate that as engineers, you and your breed are sometimes taken for granted and quite forgotten by the public….However hard it may be, you must remember these.... the planes you build must be able to fly, the bridges that you design must not crumble and the roads that you pave must lay intact… rest assured that as engineers, the duties and responsibilities that you shoulder will have to be bourn with ethics and strict discipline…A feat which I trust you will adhere to…for the rest of your lives…”.

As she took back her seat, Ms. Ford was again roused to her feet for a standing ovation and a presentation of a fine basketful of flowers…in honour of the services that she upheld within the university since 2001.

I could not help laughing when the master of ceremony mispronounced our son’s name as “Anas bin MohamED SOFAYAN” instead of MohamAD SoFIAN. As we walked out of the hall, my other half and I took a glimpse of each other and smiled a meaningful smile….And as our son and his friends tossed their respective mortars straight up into the sky, amid laughter and joy, we were overcomed with a certain kind of feeling…undescribed…..our little boy was our baby no more, for he has conquered his own odds….A new phase has just ended….and a new one is dawning…..All praises be to God….Alhamdulillah...

Monday, January 14, 2008

The Greatest Creator of All…..


We had a lovely time for the first day of the weekend. The splendid and smooth ride up Gunung Macincang by cable car, the wonderfully curved and magnificent suspended walkway high up among the cliffs. A feat to behold! A testimony of man’s creativity and engineering skills. A gift from the Almighty.

But all these man-made creations…None beats the doings of the Greatest Creator of all…

From up there, we savoured the breathtaking scenery…The folds of ‘slashed-out’ like highlands, (His creation dating back 500 million years ago)..rich bluish green with the untouched forests beyond. The deep blue of the Andaman sea adjoining a far-out island belonging to our next door neighbour, Thailand. A lone yatch sailing in the cobalt waters, standing out like a speck of white dot…Looking down from atop the mountains, I was mesmerized and remembered what Allah has said in the Quran, (Qaaf, verses 6 until 11):

“Have they not looked at the sky above then and marked, how We have made it, adorned it, and that there are no flaws in it? And the earth! We have spread it out and set upon it mountains and caused to grow in it every kind of beautiful vegetation. All these things are eye-openers and a reminder for every servant returning to Allah.
And also in Al Baqarah, verse 164:

“Surely, in the creation of the heavens and the earth, in the alternation of the night and the day, in the sailing of the ships through the ocean for the profit of mankind, in the rain which Allah sends down form the skies, with which He revives the earth after its death and spreads in it all kinds of animals, in the change of the winds and the clouds between the sky and the earth that are made subservient, there are signs for rational people.”

And then, my heart simply had to utter praises for Him.

“..there are signs for men of understanding. Those who remember Allah, while standing, sitting, and lying on their sides, and meditate on the creation of the heavens and the earth, then say: “Our Rabb! You have not created this in vain. Glory to You! Save us from the punishment of Fire.” ~ Ali Imran: verses 190-191~

Langkawi…then and now…

While on the ferry to there, my husband and I reminisced the first time we set foot on the holiday island. It was in 1987. Our son was only three, his elder sister, five years older and another eleven year old cousin of theirs. The conditions then was very laid back. Not very many places to stay. A restaurant up a hill beside the weather beaten jetty. We were exhausted when our feet touched the ground, amid the jostling crowd who apparently had the same idea as ours. To spend the Chinese New Year break....on impulse! We did not anticipate that it was going to be such a hassle…

A kindly man may have noticed our forlorn looks for he stepped near us, offered a ride in his car, to find a place to stay. We were more than happy and full of gratitude…

A few moments later, we found ourselves agreeing to stay at a huge kampong house (which was just built and still smelled of fresh woodwork). Upstairs were two bedrooms, a grass mat, two pillows and mosquito coils with matches. All for two ringgits per head per night (and that means adult heads, children not counted!) Nobody complained. We were grateful. There was a roof above our heads. And the next day, we were taken round the island by the same kindly man for a meagre fee. The ‘beras terbakar’ (burnt rice) - we picked and laid on our palms...the children laughing and had such a great time! To me, there is nothing more refreshing than the sounds of childrens’ laughter. A melody no music can capture...What more did we want? Such simple pleasures!

Fast forward! We were on our way to there again. This time around, in a more sophisticated speed boat. And Langkawi as it is now is such a far cry when we first saw it more than two decades ago. The old jetty is now just like the setting at an international airport somewhere in Europe. The ‘beras terbakar’ no longer to be seen and handpicked by visitors. We have seen the gradual changes taking place. Our little son eventually grew up and spent two years of his teenage years in a resort-like residential junior college there (of which, became the setting for a few episodes in my book, Sentuhan Muttaqeen), making us frequent visitors of the lovely island throughout that duration. Time sure flew very fast. My young son is now a young man, in his final year, M. Eng. programme at the University of Manchester. He will be finishiing his studies by May 2008, Insha Allah.

I remembered again sometime in the eighties too. We were there again as a family. The trip was sponsored fully by the institution we were attached with. My husband by then, was the head of a department. It was a meeting of all the ‘big heads’! But of course, during that trip, I was just a mum accompanying my two children.

I gathered another two other mums and their little ones. Three mums and ten children. We rented two cars amongst us. Then suddenly, there was power failure for the whole of the island. We had not even filled up the car with enough petrol yet. Then, with what little that we had, we drove to a small kiosk like station (it looked more like a small hut waiting to fall under). An old man called out to us, asking whether we wanted petrol, smiling as he did. I simply could not erase the scene afterwards from my mind. Even now, I can still visualize it. The girls were giggling away and the boys, laughing their hearts out. Everyone had a hand in pumping the petrol out, with our bare hands. (There was no power supply, remember?) We were all so fascinated, the children especially, with the transparent pinkish like thing trickling down the side into the tanks of our well used convertibles…..Surely, it was an experience to be treasured…..always and forever…

Sibling Rendezvous....




Realizing that we might only get to see my younger brother again in a year’s time, (Insya Allah), my elder sister and I decided to plan our moments of sibling rendezvous together. He will be back in Brighton, England and starting to work next month. Another brother in KL and a sister in Ipoh could not make it. So, since the three of us could, we just might as well…

These moments are very much treasured. Especially ever since the demise of both our parents. My sister and I, accompanied by our beloved husbands (minus the children). Plus a good friend of ours: G.H., who seemed more like a father to my brother (he was formerly his landlord) a very fit man (both physical and mental..might share his ‘secret’ of maintaining such good health, in future writings) well into his eighties. The Friday after awal Muharram. No lectures for me. Great! So, off we were…on our way to the sunny place associated with more than 99 islands, just up the north west coast of Malaysia….beautiful, legendary Langkawi….